Stomp grapes and roll out the barrel during Wōlffer Estate’s 31st annual harvest party on October 9. The Sagaponack vineyard’s ticketed afternoon event features wine and cider tastings, yummy bites (Palo Santo, Pizza Luca, Fresh Flavors), live music, hayrides, pony rides and games. Bring the whole family, houseguests and friends. Rain date: October 10.