Lobster paella will be on the menu at il Buco al Mare’s annual summer kickoff party (May 24). Save room for Parrish Art Museum’s “Canvas and Cuisine: A Culinary Affair” cocktail reception and wine dinner (May 26). More than premier wines from local to international vineyards, Dan’s Rosé Soirée serves up local chefs’ bites, live music and a DJ dance party (Southampton Arts Center, May 26). 231 Main Street, Amagansett, N.Y., 11930. 279 Montauk Highway, Water Mill, N.Y., 11968. 25 Jobs Lane, Southampton, N.Y., 11976.
